I knew my bf for 6 yrs.smoked weed but just found out that he has been lying to me about how much, he said he wouldnt lie again and then lied about cigarettes. we have such a close bond and have been thru alot together. when i caught him lying about cigz.he admitted he tried coke once 3 yrs.ago n hated it and just kept it from me to not lose me over something he did once. he has never cheated and this is the only lies i have caught him in, he spends all of his time with me, never has once ditched me for his boys in 6 yrs,n has stayed by me when my mom had broken us up constantly for little reasons and who is overly controlling and verb.abuse and who has done everything in her power to end us not even knowing anything about him lying.she is just controlling and verb.abusive,my therpist even says my moms wrong and that maybe im too controlling to my bf thats why he lied.i love him alot but kno my mom wont ever accept him.both mom n bf have hurt me and i dont kno if i should leave him or not , hes calling me everyday telling me hes sick to his stomach and cant live without me and i cant imagine my life without him.but bc i met him when i was 15 i never got to be single and have fun n c what else is out there.but me n him have never broke up on our own in 6yrs.or ever cheated on one another.we have been so faithful and he has always gone out of his way for me.am i overeacting or do i need to dump him! HELP!
Chosen Answer:
He’s broken your trust. He’s need to prove that he can be trusted to tell you the truth, always. If not, you really don’t need to go back to him. I mean, solid relationships are founded on trust. At the same time, though, he sounds like he really does care for you. Tell him how you feel, and that honesty is a high priority to you. I’m not going to tell you to forget him or give him a second chance – that’s up to you. Listen to yourself and what you really want, not what your mom or your therapist or what we say. 